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Date Rape Video PSA Date Rape PSA Video. Public domain video. Public service announcement. Date Rape - Protecting Yourself - A video PSA about the injustice of date rape. From the public domain. When people think of rape, they might think of a stranger jumping out of a shadowy place and sexually attacking someone. But it's not only strangers who rape. In fact, about half of all people who are raped know the person who attacked them. Girls and women are most often raped, but guys can also be raped. Most friendships, acquaintances, and dates never lead to violence, of course. But, sadly, sometimes it happens. When forced sex occurs between two people who already know each other, it is known as date rape or acquaintance rape. Even if the two people know each other well, and even if they were intimate or had sex before, no one has the right to force a sexual act on another person against his or her will. Although it involves forced sex, rape is not about sex or passion. Rape has nothing to do with love. Rape is an act of aggression and violence. You may hear some people say that those who have been raped were somehow "asking for it" because of the clothes they wore or the way they acted. That's wrong: The person who is raped is not to blame. Rape is always the fault of the rapist. And that's also the case when two people are dating — or even in an intimate relationship. One person never owes the other person sex. If sex is forced against someone's will, that's rape. Healthy relationships involve respect — including respect for the feelings of others. Someone who really cares about you will respect your wishes and not force or pressure you to have sex. Alcohol is often involved in date rapes. Drinking can loosen inhibitions, dull common sense, and — for some people — allow aggressive tendencies to surface. Drugs may also play a role. You may have heard about "date rape" drugs like rohypnol ("roofies"), gamma-hydroxybutyrate (GHB), and ketamine. Drugs like these can easily be mixed in drinks to make a person black out and forget things that happen. Both girls and guys who have been given these drugs report feeling paralyzed, having blurred vision, and lack of memory. The best defense against date rape is to try to prevent it whenever possible. Here are some things both girls and guys can do: Avoid secluded places (this may even mean your room or your partner's) until you trust your partner. Don't spend time alone with someone who makes you feel uneasy or uncomfortable. This means following your instincts and removing yourself from situations that you don't feel good about. Stay sober and aware. If you're with someone you don't know very well, be aware of what's going on around you and try to stay in control. Also, be aware of your date's ability to consent to sexual activity — you may become guilty of committing rape if the other person is not in a condition to respond or react. Know what you want. Be clear about what kind of relationship you want with another person. If you are not sure, then ask the other person to respect your feelings and to give you time. Don't allow yourself to be subject to peer pressure or encouraged to do something that you don't want to do. Added: 5051 days ago From TRabbit2 global.duration: 31.00 Views: 8525 | Comments: 0       Anti-Alcohol PSA Video For Teens Anti-Alcohol PSA Video For Teens. From the public domain. Alcoholism is a chronic disease that makes your body dependent on alcohol. You may be obsessed with alcohol and unable to control how much you drink, even though your drinking is causing serious problems with your relationships, health, work and finances. It's possible to have a problem with alcohol, but not display all the characteristics of alcoholism. This is known as alcohol abuse, which means you engage in excessive drinking that causes health or social problems, but you aren't dependent on alcohol and haven't fully lost control over the use of alcohol. Although many people assume otherwise, alcoholism is a treatable disease. Medications, counseling and self-help groups are among the therapies that can provide ongoing support to help you recover from alcoholism. Alcoholism is a disease. It is often diagnosed more through behaviors and adverse effects on functioning than by specific medical symptoms. Only 2 of the diagnostic criteria are physiological (those are tolerance changes and withdrawal symptoms). Alcohol abuse and alcoholism are associated with a broad range of medical, psychiatric, social, legal, occupational, economic, and family problems. For example, parental alcoholism underlies many family problems such as divorce, spouse abuse, child abuse and neglect, welfare dependence, and criminal behaviors, according to government sources. Added: 5069 days ago From rikkyrollin global.duration: 30.00 Views: 5781 | Comments: 0      Abuse in Relationships: Can You See It? Home Office - This is Abuse TV advert. What is Abuse? It can be if someone constantly puts you down, threatens you or forces you to do something you dont want to. Some forms of abuse are against the law and its not always physical violence. Abuse in relationships can happen to anyone regardless of the type of relationship. Research shows that suffering from abuse in relationships is more common for young women but young men can experience it too. Abuse can harm you physically and emotionally as well as leave you feeling isolated and lonely. For more information visit the official website at thisisabuse.direct.gov.uk or search online for abuse in relationships. You can get involved in live debates, check out FAQs and get info on where to go if you recognise signs of abuse in your own or a friend's relationship. Added: 5029 days ago From TRabbit2 global.duration: 81.00 Views: 5347 | Comments: 0       Drug Class 3 What is Codependency? Michael and his mother Keely discuss their drug and alcohol problems and their co- dependency issues. They also have realized, that becoming clean and sober together has also strengthened their relationship and helped them become more independent. Added: 4232 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 148.12 Views: 3312 | Comments: 0 Text Tonic - Abusive Relationships: The Warning Signs A brief list of the warning signs present in an abusive relationship. Founder of Text-Tonic: Mandy Kloppers http://www.text-tonic.co.uk UK's first ever text-based advice service. Text "advice" to 81812 Mandy is a Psychologist and runs a private practice: www.mandyjane-lifedesign.com Added: 5029 days ago From TRabbit2 global.duration: 367.00 Views: 3312 | Comments: 0 Teen Dating Violence Prevention - Textual Harassment :30 1 in 4 teens in a relationship say they have been called names, harassed or put down by their partner through cell phones and texting. Digital communication is an integral part of teens lives and this fairly unchartered digital space has created new challenges for teens as they start to experience intimate relationships. Unfortunately, dating abuse in the digital world is increasingly becoming a serious problem unique to the millennial generation of teens. Cellphones and the internet have become prime environment for controlling behavior, such as sending unwanted text messages or pressuring for nude pictures, that can be abusive or lead to relationship violence. In an effort to prevent teen dating abuse and help teens build healthy relationships, the Ad Council has partnered with the Family Violence Prevention Fund and the Office on Violence Against Women on a national, multimedia PSA campaign. The new PSAs are designed to help teens recognize digital dating abuse and provide them with the tools to initiate a conversation about this issue. The PSAs direct teens to visit www.ThatsNotCool.com were they are encouraged to draw their own lines around what is, or is not, acceptable relationship behavior and seek help from their peers. Added: 5051 days ago From TRabbit2 global.duration: 32.00 Views: 3304 | Comments: 0      The Anger Solution Board Game The anger Solution game is a fun game to help provide alternative solutions for angry and aggressive behaviors . The goal is to help children understand they have control over their behavioral responses to anger and they can make choices that result in positive solutions. Anger is a natural emotion in response to conflict situations it can jeopardize relationships if not communicated effectively therefore it is suggested that this game should be played with adult supervision. The solution spinner introduces various anger management solutions, the solution cards present relaxation techniques, the empowerment cards offer positive affirmations and the question cards provide an understanding of the anger response. Added: 4155 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 71.60 Views: 3207 | Comments: 0       A Rose for Livvy: A Story for Teens About Internet Safety This DVD tells the story of a lonely girl who develops an online relationship with someone she meets in an Internet chat room. Livvy's technology teacher uses a local incident of a missing girl to inform his students about the risks of internet chat rooms. Livvy ignores the advice. Added: 4233 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 165.10 Views: 3166 | Comments: 0 Teen Suicide Prevention - We Can Help Us :60 Suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death among youth 15-24 following accidents and homicide. Moreover, for every completed suicide by youth, it is estimated that 100-200 attempts are made. While causes of suicide vary, these tragic occurrences are preventable. Many teens face tough challenges, ranging from family conflict or relationship problems to mental health problems like self-harm and depression. All these and more can escalate to situations where teens consider ending their own lives, but with support and the right resources, troubled teens can be empowered to start the process of coping. The PSA campaign begins with the insight that many teens encounter the same tough times, but many also develop positive solutions to help them get past them. The WeCanHelpUs campaign tells teens that whatever their problem, there is a way to get through it. Viewers are directed to visit http://www.reachout.com where they can view and listen to stories from teens that have been there and made it. Added: 5051 days ago From TRabbit2 global.duration: 62.00 Views: 3107 | Comments: 0       The Emotional Intelligence Game Grades 2-8. The Emotional Intelligence game is an entertaining and engaging game that reflects the five areas of emotional intelligence:/n*Self-awareness *Mood management *Self-motivat ion *Empathy *Relationship skills/nThere are two versions of the game and corresponding sets of rules; Competitive (where players play against each other) and Cooperative (where players work together). Players try to fill in their brain card by answering questions and winning tokens. Also included are six decks of cards relating to the five areas of emotional intelligence plus a deck of Bonus Cards. The Emotional Intelligence game utilizes both cognitive behavior therapy and social learning theory to help players build their emotional intelligence. For 2-6 players. Added: 4153 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 48.93 Views: 2954 | Comments: 0       The Helping, Sharing, and Caring Board Game Ages: 4-12. By Richard A. Gardner, M.D. The Helping, Sharing, and Caring board game helps children develop critical communication and social skills. The purpose of this game is to provide an enjoyable game in the context of which important issues are introduced. A wide variety of issues are focused on: self-esteem, manners, safety, ethics, values, health, consideration for others, interpersonal relations, the value of learning, sympathy, empathy, and competence. The responses to the cards impart information and facilitate communication, both of which can enhance feelings of self-worth and improve interpersonal relationships. 2-6 players./nContents: Game board 288 Discussion cards Spinner 6 pawns Chips 2 Dice/nThis board game is also part of The Helping, Sharing, and Caring Collection Added: 4153 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 54.90 Views: 2654 | Comments: 0       Ten Signs of Relationship Abuse Combining powerful interviews of battered and verbally abused teens with expert commentary, video delivers key facts about dating abuse. Emotional abuse includes isolation from friends, family, and outside activities; using insulting names or degrading terms; displaying jealousy and possessiveness; controlling a partner’s clothing choices and behavior; using excessive cell phone use to monitor behavior; and threatening self-harm to control behavior. Sexual and physical abuse includes extreme roughhousing; pushing, grabbing, restraining, and other violent behaviors that don't leave marks or bruises; touching a partner’s body in ways that make him/her feel uncomfortable; and making threats as a means of coercing a partner’s consent to sexual activity. Teen speakers and dating abuse experts offer helpful advice on how teens can get away from potentially unhealthy, dangerous relationships. Added: 4218 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 197.02 Views: 2324 | Comments: 0 Lookin' Out 4 U: Three Stories About Abusive Relationships Presenting an honest and graphic picture of dating abuse, this DVD tells the story of three young women who are caught in unhealthy relationships. Their boyfriends say they are acting out of love and concern, even as they subject the girls to accusations, putdowns, domination, and disrespect. Added: 4229 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 102.27 Views: 2303 | Comments: 0 PSA Abusive Relationships Abusive relationships Added: 5051 days ago From TRabbit2 global.duration: 199.00 Views: 2296 | Comments: 0      Drop Out Prevention: Building Relationships for Success Three stories explore relationships with friends, teachers, and boyfriends or girlfriends. Viewers see what healthy relationships look like when partners and friends support each other's goals and make academic success their priority. Based on real-life dramatizations this program shows how establishing healthy relationships can help teens stay in school and graduate. Added: 4233 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 160.28 Views: 2270 | Comments: 0 LifeSteps: Developing Healthy Relationships Teens learn to build their own personal support system, recognize true friends, foster open communication with adults, recognize trust and honesty as a critical foundation for all relationships, and develop positive refusal skills. Added: 4231 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 122.79 Views: 2214 | Comments: 0 Dealing with Grief by Accepting the Grief & Sorrow http://www.GriefCoachAcademy.com How young widows need to learn the seven stages of grief & how to deal with these stages of grief and sorrow, along with the grief process and grief recovery Added: 5044 days ago From unobtainium global.duration: 198.00 Views: 2020 | Comments: 0      Let's Talk About Separation and Divorce Card Game Ages: 6 and Up. The Let's Talk about Separation and Divorce card game is designed to help foster a positive relationship between separated and divorced parents and their children. The more than 100 cards in this game are intended to give children the opportunity to express their feelings and to give parents a chance to model positive ways of thinking and feeling about separation and divorce. The cards are specifically written to help children focus on solutions to the problems created by separation or divorce rather than to complain or blame others./nThe card game will help children: Not to blame themselves Not to be caught in the middle of the parents' disagreements To have a positive self-image To cope with stress To be a good problem solver To see friends and family as a source of support To communicate feelings and accept the feelings of others/nContents: Over 100 Let's Talk...cards Spinner Instructions Added: 4153 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 50.10 Views: 2019 | Comments: 0       Most Used, Most Abused Drugs: Smoking The Toxic Truth A familiar exchange from teenagers about relationships opens Smoking the Toxic Truth, a tobacco prevention video that discourages young people from smoking. They meet Terry Jones, a larynx cancer patient struggling with the results of his choice to smoke. Added: 4225 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 138.24 Views: 2013 | Comments: 0 Drug Class 2: Carly and Zoe Carly's older sister, Zoe began drinking and drug use when she entered high school. Zoe's change in behavior began to play havoc on the family dynamic; this deeply effected Carly. Carly talks about her relationship with Zoe, but as the story unfolds we also learn Carly is now becoming involved with illicit drugs and alcohol. As Zoe begins sobriety, she tries to tell her sister, "it is not worth the pain." Added: 4233 days ago From GuidanceGroup global.duration: 139.78 Views: 1953 | Comments: 0